Patience is a Virtue

Well I hope that you had a good Christmas and are getting primed for the New Year. Maybe you are having a party tomorrow night to celebrate the New Year or maybe you will be in bed at 930pm and won't feel a difference on Wednesday, January 1st. If you know Kelci and I at all (especially me probably), you know that we will be up late tomorrow celebrating the New Year. I don't see myself ever being the "in bed before midnight on New Years Eve" type of person. But only time will tell I guess.

My mom has always said that patience is not a virtue she owns. She quite possibly hates to wait more than any other human being I know. I wouldn't say that I hate waiting quite as much as her. I was given a little more patience than she will ever have probably. However, I do not enjoy waiting either. I don't like waiting in lines at amusement parks. I don't like waiting in lines at the bank (I rarely go to the bank anymore, however). I don't like waiting on Kelci to get ready, though she usually is pretty much ready when I am. And I especially do not like waiting on red lights; red arrows particularly. Most red arrows are unnecessary in my opinion...but that's for another day. Waiting is a part of life and as Tom Petty says in one of his songs: (who I saw in concert at Red Rocks on my 14th birthday, it was awesome!)...Waiting is the Hardest Part. 

Kelci and I are at a time in our life when waiting is all we can really do. We are waiting to leave for Brazil and we really cannot do anything about it. Our current departure date is February 18th, meaning that we have 49 days until we leave. All we can do is wait. In the mean time, we are waiting to hear back on our Visas. We cannot do anything to help speed the process along. Again, all we can do is wait. We have had to wait on churches getting back to us at times. We have had to wait on support answers. We have had to wait more than we would like to throughout this whole process and it has been frustrating at times. However, I am beginning to believe that all this waiting is simply God preparing us.

Last February, Kelci and I visited Brazil, the church we are going to work with and the team we will be joining. It was a great experience (obviously)! We were told numerous times that people in Brazil move at their own pace. It is just a cultural thing. They are not nearly as concerned about time or pace. We experienced this right away when we arrived at the airport in Rio. We met up with Brent, who was picking us up from the airport and he kindly offered to get us a drink. He ordered 4 drinks at a little shop; 1 bottled water, 2 soft drinks and an orange juice I believe. That would probably take about 30 seconds to purchase and walk away with here in the states. However, we waited for about 5 minutes before Brent was able to pay (there was no line). It was our first cultural experience in Brazil and these types of things occurred semi-often throughout the trip. This may kill my mom when she comes to visit us. We have been told that we can expect to wait much more in Brazil. We've been told that waiting in line at the bank (which I have to go to there) can take an hour or more. People just wait more there. We better get used to it.

If we could be in Brazil this week, we would be ecstatic. We are just ready to get there and begin our work there. However, we are having to be patient and we are trying to see it as a blessing. We are using this time to spend with family and friends. We are using this time to prepare ourselves more for the work and for the culture and for the language. We are using this time to prepare ourselves to wait...and wait...and wait some more while living in Brazil. I think God is using this time of waiting to prepare us. To prepare us for His work there. To prepare us to be content with the time we are given. To prepare us to be more patient. And to prepare us to be better about how we use the time spent waiting. I know they'll be moments of frustration while in Brazil...but this time of waiting now just may be a blessing in the future. After all, patience is a virtue.

"Therefore, as God's chose people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience." - Col. 3:12

Thank you for your continued prayers and support! We couldn't do this without your prayers, support and encouragement!

--Kelly and Kelci

There's No Place Like Home

Last weekend we were in Edmond, OK for Kelci’s grandparents’ 70^th anniversary! What a special occasion it was. We were able to see some of her family that we had not seen in a while. I met some of her family that I had never met. It truly was an unforgettable occasion and one that I am sure we will all hold close to our hearts for a long time.

While we were in Edmond, we stayed with some friends who have a new house near our most recent home. We also spent quite a bit of time at Kelci’s Aunt and Uncle’s house, which is also very close to our most recent home in Edmond. On Thursday night we drove into town and when we passed our old apartment complex (it was cold and snowy at the time as well), Kelci said, “sometimes I miss just being home, cuddling up with Peyton (our dog), and watching a movie with you.” This was partially the cold weather talking…I mean who doesn’t want to sit at home and do nothing when it is cold and snowy out. However, she also said this out of our desire to be home.

When we left Edmond in September, we moved to Tulsa and in with Kelci’s parents. If you know my in-laws at all…you know that I am extremely blessed and have quite possibly the best in-laws in the world. Home was in Tulsa then. After staying there for a few weeks, we moved to the Dallas area to begin training and have stayed with one of our friend’s parents here (The Durrills) and they have been so welcoming and gracious. Home was in Highland Village with the Durrills then. We have lived in Tulsa, Dallas, Tulsa again, Denver, Edmond, Dallas again and we are going back to Tulsa this weekend after spending a night in Edmond…again. And then, of course as you most likely know by now…we move to Niteroi in about 6 weeks (Lord willing…say a quick prayer over the visa process now please!). So needless to say home is kind of all over the place right now.

I do not write about this to receive pity or sympathy or anything like that. We knew this is how it was going to be when we committed to this and we are still very excited! I simply write this to remind us all (and especially Kelci and I) of a few things.

• First, home is important. We all need a place where we feel safe, loved, secure, wanted, and simply at home. That place may be a certain location, city or house…but most likely it is people that make home for you. My mom moved to a townhouse after I moved to college and though I never lived in that house for longer than a month or so…it felt like home before I got married because that is where my mom was.

• Second, there are many people who do not a have a home. There are people who do not have physical homes and it is our responsibility as disciples to see those “who are strangers and invite them in (Matt 25:35).” Look for opportunities to do so. However, there are also those who do not have emotional homes. Look for these people and do everything you can to bring home to them. It could be a kind word, a meal, safety or many other things. But look to fulfill those needs. I will never again take for granted the physical roof over my head, but maybe more importantly, the family, safety and emotional home that I have had throughout my life.

• Lastly and perhaps most importantly, “this world is not my home, I’m just a passin’ through.” Maybe you know the song. This life is temporary. Lets not get too comfortable. Kelci and I are super tired of living out of a suitcase; however, it is been a reminder to us that this world is not our ultimate home. God has a much better place prepared for us that is truly home.

Like I said above, we have about 6 weeks before we leave for Brazil (that’s the plan at least). Our prayer and desire is to bring more people into God’s home of heaven. We are so very ready to be in Brazil and to start our new home there. Niteroi will very obviously be our mission point. Mission happens wherever your home is. It starts with your family and friends and continues to your workplace, neighborhood, supermarket, gym and wherever else you may call home.

Thank you for your prayers and Vá Com Deus!

-- Kelly and Kelci